All the previous posts here were taken from my old blog. Master has instructed me to cut and paste them to a new blog with a new beginning of sorts. My former sub name has been changed to slave violet and i LOVE the name SOOOOOOOO much!! It is purrrrrrrrrfect.
Due to the timestamp issue on Blogger, it looks like all the previous posts were today. That is incorrect. They are a series of posts dating back to October of 2006.
From here out this will be my new blog space. My new arena, my new name.
slave violet
Thursday, July 17, 2008
My thoughts on a True 24/7 BDSM Relationship
Well, here goes my thoughts to others who say that 24/7 can be long distance, can be married to someone else, can be together ONLY when they can get away.
You are fooling yourself.
The BDSM lifestyle has been a lifestyle of mine for over 15 years and I am sure I conjured up such unrealistic fantasies to keep me warm at night too, but never would I openly say that I am in a 24/7 relationship and Master lives 400 miles away. It is absurd.
The concept of 24/7 means that you are in that relationship 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Not when "Master" is off with his wife or family and had sent you a list of things to do that day to keep you occupied. It means that the 2 of you are committed to being in a relationship ALL THE TIME!!! Hell, what is left after the 24 hours in a day and the 7 days in a week???
I hear it all the time. "Master lives in Cleveland and I live in Orlando, but we are a 24/7 couple." "He is married but as soon as his 12 year old is of legal age he will be leaving and moving to Orlando to be with me." That is over 6 years away!!! What are you thinking? 24/7 what again? You talk to him for 24 hours a year and see him 7 days in a year when he sneaks away for a work related seminar? Come on.... pay attention here. It takes work to make any relationship flourish yet alone being half way across the country waiting for some dude's child to grow up and head to college. Simple.
It doesn't work. I see it happen ALL the time. It is a fantasy but does not become a reality.From the Master's point of view, his life is perfect. A good job, wife, kids, 2 cars, a dog and a swimming pool in the back yard. Oh yeah... and a submissive for when he needs her. Perfect.The submissive derives pleasure from being told what to do, what to wear to work that day, and when Master can steal a few minutes from his life to chat with her on line. Oh yeah, be sure you check your email. After a time period this is not enough for her and it shouldn't be. Sneak away maybe for a week end when Master can get away. The submissive feels the control mentally but this control creates a yearning for a more defined relationship. End result. The relationship ends. At best, both with saying they grew apart. At worst, one will call the other a Bastard.No, this has never happened to me.It is something I see day in and day out and many just do not realize it.And it is sadI have been submissive to many men and in many different types of relationships but never collared to any until it was decided we actually are a 24/7 couple. We wake up together, we go to sleep together, Master works, i am house slave, resident cook, maid and numerous other things.We have guidelines, rules. Goals.We have a relationship.Not in a milllion years could you sell me on the concept that a 24/ long distance relationship will work.
You are fooling yourself.
The BDSM lifestyle has been a lifestyle of mine for over 15 years and I am sure I conjured up such unrealistic fantasies to keep me warm at night too, but never would I openly say that I am in a 24/7 relationship and Master lives 400 miles away. It is absurd.
The concept of 24/7 means that you are in that relationship 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Not when "Master" is off with his wife or family and had sent you a list of things to do that day to keep you occupied. It means that the 2 of you are committed to being in a relationship ALL THE TIME!!! Hell, what is left after the 24 hours in a day and the 7 days in a week???
I hear it all the time. "Master lives in Cleveland and I live in Orlando, but we are a 24/7 couple." "He is married but as soon as his 12 year old is of legal age he will be leaving and moving to Orlando to be with me." That is over 6 years away!!! What are you thinking? 24/7 what again? You talk to him for 24 hours a year and see him 7 days in a year when he sneaks away for a work related seminar? Come on.... pay attention here. It takes work to make any relationship flourish yet alone being half way across the country waiting for some dude's child to grow up and head to college. Simple.
It doesn't work. I see it happen ALL the time. It is a fantasy but does not become a reality.From the Master's point of view, his life is perfect. A good job, wife, kids, 2 cars, a dog and a swimming pool in the back yard. Oh yeah... and a submissive for when he needs her. Perfect.The submissive derives pleasure from being told what to do, what to wear to work that day, and when Master can steal a few minutes from his life to chat with her on line. Oh yeah, be sure you check your email. After a time period this is not enough for her and it shouldn't be. Sneak away maybe for a week end when Master can get away. The submissive feels the control mentally but this control creates a yearning for a more defined relationship. End result. The relationship ends. At best, both with saying they grew apart. At worst, one will call the other a Bastard.No, this has never happened to me.It is something I see day in and day out and many just do not realize it.And it is sadI have been submissive to many men and in many different types of relationships but never collared to any until it was decided we actually are a 24/7 couple. We wake up together, we go to sleep together, Master works, i am house slave, resident cook, maid and numerous other things.We have guidelines, rules. Goals.We have a relationship.Not in a milllion years could you sell me on the concept that a 24/ long distance relationship will work.
Our Day to Day Lives
Nobody can live together and maintain a 24/7 BDSM relationship.Along the way, other relationships within the main relationship form.He is husband, He is best friend, He is Lover.I am wife, I am best friend, I am lover.We share vanilla interests and hobbies.Therefore, what I am saying is that I am NOT tied to the wall or bed, stuck in a corner or kneeling at his feet ALL the time.Being married to Master defines an entire new set of boundaries.
My role. I am a full time house slave. I do not work outside the home. I do not apologize for this career, I LOVE this career. This career was chosen for me by Master. My job description would be as follows:Clean The House, Shop for the Food, Cook the Meals, Make Lunches, Do the Laundry, Take Care of Master, Take Care of our Kitty, Make sure Master has the Liquor of His choice at home when he returns home after a long day at work, Balance the Checkbook, Keep Master informed of Finances. Each morning I make sure everything is in it's proper place, I change the towels in Master's Bathroom, I vacuum, sweep the floors, mop the kitchen. Make sure all is clean in the house. In addition to this, weekly, I go thru the house and spend about 5 hours making sure all the bedding is changed, the fish tank is clean, the beta fish bowl is cleaned.Our home always looks like a Model home. Someone can walk in anytime and I am comfortable with that. I want to make Master proud. I take extra care trying to keep things the best they can me.One day a week I shop for groceries.Another day I may run errands to find sales, chase coupons, pick up medications for Master and myself.It is also my job to make sure that we have all our medications and that refills are filled, doctor offices called if appointments or medications needed.This is a multi faceted profession.It has wonderful benefits.When I met Master I worked for the United States Government and traveled extensively, my hours were days, nights and week ends.He hated that.He changed that.Master formulated a plan which took us across the Country. Where it is now warm and dry. Master changed careers. We live within the boundaries of Master's income.At first it was very hard for me as I was used to bringing money into the household. It was easy to just purchase what I wanted or needed without any thought.Learning to ask Master for things was difficult in the beginning for me and now it seems I don't have to ask. It is just like He knows what I need.Master SPOILS me SOOOOOOOOOOOO much!!
I do have hobbies.I sell things on Ebay. Small things mostly. I call it my ebay stocks. It is fun to see how much money I can make in a week. Though the amounts are small, it is enough to take Master to dinner or buy theater tickets sometimes.
Knitting, crocheting, sewing, photography, cooking, baking, gardening. These are my hobbies.
Together, Master and I like, The Theater, Concerts, Fine Dining, Travel, spending time at the Pool, in our hot tub, watching TV ( thou the TV shows of today leave alot to be desired) renting DVD's, and just talking to each other.
This is vanilla world. In this world, we are a very private couple. We spend almost 100 percent of our time together alone with EACH OTHER.We have chosen this lifestyle.
I didn't come here to tell our day to day vanilla lives, but I felt background would be helpful. It makes us so much like " the couple next door".
My next post will be all about kink and when one knows they found the right person to make that kink become reality.
Next blog.... Sex, spanking and more.
My role. I am a full time house slave. I do not work outside the home. I do not apologize for this career, I LOVE this career. This career was chosen for me by Master. My job description would be as follows:Clean The House, Shop for the Food, Cook the Meals, Make Lunches, Do the Laundry, Take Care of Master, Take Care of our Kitty, Make sure Master has the Liquor of His choice at home when he returns home after a long day at work, Balance the Checkbook, Keep Master informed of Finances. Each morning I make sure everything is in it's proper place, I change the towels in Master's Bathroom, I vacuum, sweep the floors, mop the kitchen. Make sure all is clean in the house. In addition to this, weekly, I go thru the house and spend about 5 hours making sure all the bedding is changed, the fish tank is clean, the beta fish bowl is cleaned.Our home always looks like a Model home. Someone can walk in anytime and I am comfortable with that. I want to make Master proud. I take extra care trying to keep things the best they can me.One day a week I shop for groceries.Another day I may run errands to find sales, chase coupons, pick up medications for Master and myself.It is also my job to make sure that we have all our medications and that refills are filled, doctor offices called if appointments or medications needed.This is a multi faceted profession.It has wonderful benefits.When I met Master I worked for the United States Government and traveled extensively, my hours were days, nights and week ends.He hated that.He changed that.Master formulated a plan which took us across the Country. Where it is now warm and dry. Master changed careers. We live within the boundaries of Master's income.At first it was very hard for me as I was used to bringing money into the household. It was easy to just purchase what I wanted or needed without any thought.Learning to ask Master for things was difficult in the beginning for me and now it seems I don't have to ask. It is just like He knows what I need.Master SPOILS me SOOOOOOOOOOOO much!!
I do have hobbies.I sell things on Ebay. Small things mostly. I call it my ebay stocks. It is fun to see how much money I can make in a week. Though the amounts are small, it is enough to take Master to dinner or buy theater tickets sometimes.
Knitting, crocheting, sewing, photography, cooking, baking, gardening. These are my hobbies.
Together, Master and I like, The Theater, Concerts, Fine Dining, Travel, spending time at the Pool, in our hot tub, watching TV ( thou the TV shows of today leave alot to be desired) renting DVD's, and just talking to each other.
This is vanilla world. In this world, we are a very private couple. We spend almost 100 percent of our time together alone with EACH OTHER.We have chosen this lifestyle.
I didn't come here to tell our day to day vanilla lives, but I felt background would be helpful. It makes us so much like " the couple next door".
My next post will be all about kink and when one knows they found the right person to make that kink become reality.
Next blog.... Sex, spanking and more.
A Perfect Evening
"Yes,Sir.""Suck my balls. Yes, that is a good slut. Lick them.Very good, you are a very good little slut.Now I want you to eat my ass. Yes, that is it. I want to feel your tongue in my asshole. Deeper, you dirty little slut. You like licking my asshole, don't you slut?""Yes Sir."" Now kiss my ass, rub your face all over my ass, kissing it. Stick your face in the crack of my ass, and lick my asshole. When you do it correctly, I will let you suck my cock.""Good slut. Now, come around here and suck my cock." " I want you to suck it deep, I want you to gag and choke on it. I want to feel your dirtly little mouth all the way down my cock slut." " You like cock, don't you slut?""Yes Sir, I love your cock.""Deeper... I want to hear you gag." He then pulls my head away off his cock. SLAP! He slaps my face."Thank You Sir."I can feel the heat and warmth on my cheek. I know what is coming in a second. SLAP! He slaps the other side of my face.Again, "Thank You Sir."Now, suck that cock deep slut. I want you to drool on it. Master then begins to push my head down on his cock harder and I can feel myself gagging and my eyes watering.."Very good my slut"I want you to swallow all my cum, don't you dare miss a drop. I cannot answer. He is now using my head on his cock and bopping it up and down at his will. I am concentrating on making sure I swallow every last drop. I now can feel the hot cum spirting into my mouth, I pull forward to make sure I get every last drop. I can hear his deep groans."Very good slut."He pinches my nose to make sure I am swallowing. "Good girl, don't want you to miss out on any." "Now, get up off your knees and go into the bathroom, kneel in the tub, I have something for you.""Yes, Sir."I wander down the hall to the bathroom. It seems like a long time before he appears. He looks at me in the bathtub. " I want you to close your eyes and open your mouth, Slut""Yes, Sir."I do as ordered. I close my eyes, open my mouth and tip my head slightly backward. Within seconds I can feel a hot stream of is urine on my face. His piss feels warms as it sprays on my head, streams down my face, and as he aimes toward my mouth, I can taste his pee and try not to move away. Within seconds he hands are on either side of my head and his cock is in my mouth."Clean me off, slut.""Suck it."Now, just kneel there, in the tub. Knowing you are a good slut. You did very good tonight. I will come and tell you when you can shower. He leaves the bathroom, leaves me kneeling with the pee starting to feel cold all over my body, his tastes in my mouth. I feel warm and fuzzy. I am floating. In a little while he comes back and says it is time to shower and get ready for bed. I take a long hot shower paying attention to details. Feeling that I served him well that evening. After I get out of the shower, he has warm towels waiting for me and dries me off." I love you, Slut.""I love you, Sir."What a perfect evening.
Posted by violet at 6:33 AM
Labels: Anal, Cock Sucking, Flogging, Slut, Submission
Posted by violet at 6:33 AM
Labels: Anal, Cock Sucking, Flogging, Slut, Submission
From the Beginning Till Now...
Being submissive doesn't mean being a doormat. Doesn't mean not having opinions, it does mean allowing another to make the final decision in a relationship. Well, that is what it means to me anyways.
I have had a submissive nature all my life. This nurturing side that some have taken advantage of and others have marveled in. It's just me. Nothing I can change. Nothing I even want to try.
It's taken many years to find that right person, the person with that natural Dominant side that can bring out the best in me. I have found him.
As long as I can remember I have had an interest in BDSM. Before I knew what the letters meant, before I knew it had an entire culture of it's own. I adored strong men, mentally and physically. Ones who could control a situation, were in control at all times.
Control makes me hot and fuzzy all at the same time and if this too is your nature, you will understand.
From here on, I will try to bring you up to my adventures of what my life has been like. In order to do this, I will introduce some characters that will seem not so " Dom like", but as we grow, we learn.
Just some background. I am a 46 year old woman who is currently married to her Dom. I plan on this union being forever. We are a perfect match, a wonderful fit. Yes, the absolutely perfect Dom/sub relationship that could exist.
Ok, I am biased. Hell, it's my blog.
Enuff for now. Will continue later.
I have had a submissive nature all my life. This nurturing side that some have taken advantage of and others have marveled in. It's just me. Nothing I can change. Nothing I even want to try.
It's taken many years to find that right person, the person with that natural Dominant side that can bring out the best in me. I have found him.
As long as I can remember I have had an interest in BDSM. Before I knew what the letters meant, before I knew it had an entire culture of it's own. I adored strong men, mentally and physically. Ones who could control a situation, were in control at all times.
Control makes me hot and fuzzy all at the same time and if this too is your nature, you will understand.
From here on, I will try to bring you up to my adventures of what my life has been like. In order to do this, I will introduce some characters that will seem not so " Dom like", but as we grow, we learn.
Just some background. I am a 46 year old woman who is currently married to her Dom. I plan on this union being forever. We are a perfect match, a wonderful fit. Yes, the absolutely perfect Dom/sub relationship that could exist.
Ok, I am biased. Hell, it's my blog.
Enuff for now. Will continue later.
Quiet Time. Sexy pix for Master
I find this to be such an very quiet relaxing postion. This was a photo I took for Master Bruce while he was at work. Something he requested.
Master keeps pictures and a CD of some of His favorite positions of me. Some make me cringe as I am pretty critical of my photos. Some are fine.
Master particularily likes anal plugs. So this one with an anal plug and dildo is one he likes very much.
It is impossible for me to be in this position and not have it lead to an orgasm. Master knows that I am an extremely sexual being, therefore He does not limit my orgasms.
He also knows that I am always ready for Him for whatever His needs are.
Today I made homemade bread and manicotti for dinner tonight. I have already made Master's lunch for tomorrow morning as he leaves home very early. This house slave is about to now go and sweep and mop the kitchen floor, and then maybe be able to go off to the pool.
Our weather is so nice. Upper 90's and Sunshine! I so love the Sunshine.
Posted by violet at 10:36 AM 1 comments
Labels: Anal, anal plug, Master, orgasm, photos, Submission
Master keeps pictures and a CD of some of His favorite positions of me. Some make me cringe as I am pretty critical of my photos. Some are fine.
Master particularily likes anal plugs. So this one with an anal plug and dildo is one he likes very much.
It is impossible for me to be in this position and not have it lead to an orgasm. Master knows that I am an extremely sexual being, therefore He does not limit my orgasms.
He also knows that I am always ready for Him for whatever His needs are.
Today I made homemade bread and manicotti for dinner tonight. I have already made Master's lunch for tomorrow morning as he leaves home very early. This house slave is about to now go and sweep and mop the kitchen floor, and then maybe be able to go off to the pool.
Our weather is so nice. Upper 90's and Sunshine! I so love the Sunshine.
Posted by violet at 10:36 AM 1 comments
Labels: Anal, anal plug, Master, orgasm, photos, Submission
Suck my Cock!
There are days that submission has a slutty side. Master likes it that way. submission and service are all fine but slutty is sexy. As Master sat on the sofa and ordered me to suck his cock. Master likes me to gag, i don't like to gag, but he knows that i will....sooner or later. He took my head and grabbed handfuls of my hair as he shoved my head down on his cock. This gives me little control over this act and my desire to please just sets in. Master knows that he will not let go of my head or hair until he cums. His hands guide (shoves, pulls, pushes) my head to all the positions he wants. I know that he will not let go until he cums.
I am now gagging as i cannot keep up with the motion, my eyes are watering... i am trying not to dribble, if i pull away and try to stop the motion he will slap my face and though i am trying to please him, when he does that it makes me hotter. I am His slut at all times, whenever he desires, He knows that. i know that. Sex is a large part of our relationship.
We find that sex is a large part of a good BDSM relationship.
i am His... slut, sub, slave, lover, wife.
Posted by violet at 1:21 PM 0 comments
I am now gagging as i cannot keep up with the motion, my eyes are watering... i am trying not to dribble, if i pull away and try to stop the motion he will slap my face and though i am trying to please him, when he does that it makes me hotter. I am His slut at all times, whenever he desires, He knows that. i know that. Sex is a large part of our relationship.
We find that sex is a large part of a good BDSM relationship.
i am His... slut, sub, slave, lover, wife.
Posted by violet at 1:21 PM 0 comments
Just imagine, the visual will come!
Crawl... down the hall, across the room. Sit between my legs. Very good. Suck my cock. Deeper!My head is being pulled off his cock and I close my eyes as I can sense what is to come. I feel a sting, a warm sensation. Master has slapped my face. " Deeper!" He repeats. Yes, sir. I somewhat mumble. His hands tangled in and pulling at my hair. The sofa seems low, I widget back and forth. Somewhere between breaths, I ask if we can go into the bedroom. We enter the bedroom. I lay back on the bed, Master is biting me. His little toy that he can take with him where we go and no one knows. He bites hard. My arms, my thights, my breasts.... OUCH! OUCH! " Good girl"...... There is rolling and some groping and Master is on top of me....His balls are sitting on my face. I open my eyes to see his ass above me. " Lick it" he orders. "Lick my ass slut." NOW! I find myself getting wetter and wetter. Master is shoving fingers in my pussy and stretching me. His hard hands is making me squirm. " Not like that slut, eat my ass, do it right!"I can hear my breathing as though it is coming from somewhere else and can feel how wet all this is making me. I begin to lick and eat Master's ass as best as I can from the position he has placed himself in. He seems satisfied.After a bit there seems to be all this readjusting. Master is laying on his back. " Suck it" were the only words I could hear. As just how this all began, my mouth was on his hard cock. His fingers wrapped in my hair, using my head for his pleasure. As tonight, Master decided I was not allowed to cum, he pushed my off his cock on to my back just as he began to come. I could feel the hot cum streaking across my face, my eyes, shooting onto my hair." Your my cunt, aren't you?" "Yes, Sir, your cunt always" There is tissue next to the bed now and I wipe the cum off my face and out of my hair the best I can.Master is ready to sleep. I am happy, it has been a good evening.
Posted by violet at 6:29 AM
Posted by violet at 6:29 AM
The Stranger
SLUT! Do you like to be at my feet? Yes Master. Come here, put your head right here at my feet.Wait... Master puts a blindfold on me. I can't see through it. I can hear noise in the background, another person? I am not sure. I hear Master say " Yes".... I can now feel another person behind me. I can hear him breathing. "The condoms are on the coffee table, Master says."I hear some small noices. Master instructs me to keep my head at his feet and not to move.I am now being fucked from behind by a stranger. Someone I have never met, he is holding my hips with a tight grip and fucking me very hard. Do you like it slut, Master asks? Yes Sir, I mutter. The stranger fucks me for what seems like a very long time."Her ass?" The stranger asks... Master must reply only with a nod as I don't hear him.I can feel lube running down my ass....I know what is about to come.I am now being penetrated by this stranger in the ass. My face still pressed to Master's feet as he sits on the sofa and watches the show. I try to relax but am not doing very well and the words OUCH, along with moans of distress seem to come out of me as though I were the stranger. Good Slut, Master says. You like being used like a dirty little cunt, don't you? Tell me SLUT!Yes, Sir. Yes Master!!! Soon, I can tell the stranger is done with me. Master instructs him to remove the condom and place it in a small paper bowl that is on the coffee table. He does so.For several minutes there is no noise... some movements. Nothing more. I am still in a position of being on the carpet, on my elbows and knees, my ass in the air, my face pressed firmly at Master's feet.The man leaves. I still have no idea who he was. Master removes the blindfold. He instructs me to get up. He tells me to take the small paper bowl and throw it into the trash. All I know of this stranger is what I see. I condom in a paper bowl.Master instructs me to return to him. I kneel in front of him."Did you like being used my slut?" " You are mine to do as I please." "You are such a cunt. My cunt."All I say is Yes, Master.Master motions me to lay across his lap. I obey. He begins to slap my ass. His hand falls hard on my ass. Over and over. I lay motionless. He asks again if I like being a slut. I answer yes. I feel his fingers enter me, first in my pussy and then in my ass." You like this, don't you?" Yes Master. He begins to push 3 fingers into my ass. I can still feel the sting of the spanking as my mind focuses on his words." You are not allowed to cum tonight, Slut." Tonight you are to be used, you like being used, don't you?I shake my head..... Yes Master. "Good Slut"....."Now, dirty little slut, I want you to suck my cock" I want you to make me cum... He pushes me off his lap and I crawl between his legs. He remains on the couch and I kneel between his legs.A few seconds pass.... He looks down at me and grabs my hair... pulls my head down to his cock and says " Suck it"....I take Master's cock into my mouth and begin to suck his cock, taking him deep into my mouth.I am there to please him. In time, I can feel his body make those movements that I know he is about to cum."Don't miss a drop." "Swallow." His cock fills my entire mouth and as he thrusts I fight the urge of that gag reflex as his size large cock pushes hard into my throat. Master Grabs my head, holds me in place and Fucks my mouth. His cum fills my mouth and runs down my throat."Thank you Master." Are the first words I say after composing myself a bit.You were a very good slut tonight, Master states. I will think about allowing you to cum tomorrow. For now, it is time for you to go to bed.I kiss Master Goodnight and go into the bedroom. Stopping to pause by the mirror to see that my ass is a bright color of red. Yet, all just seems so fuzzy at the moment.I slept so very well that night.
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About Me
- violet
- East Valley, Arizona, United States
- My thoughts and feelings on a lifestyle some call taboo. Others call normal. Belonging to another has so many definitions, yet we all desire to belong. Being owned is belonging. submissive -- In D/s relationships, a submissive is a person who retains freedoms and rights, but submits or potentially submits to another in areas wider than BDSM scenes. Within a BDSM only context submissive is synonymous with 'bottom'. Submissives can vary in how serious they take their position, training, and situation. My submission is 24/7 This blog is of ADULT Content.