Nobody can live together and maintain a 24/7 BDSM relationship.Along the way, other relationships within the main relationship form.He is husband, He is best friend, He is Lover.I am wife, I am best friend, I am lover.We share vanilla interests and hobbies.Therefore, what I am saying is that I am NOT tied to the wall or bed, stuck in a corner or kneeling at his feet ALL the time.Being married to Master defines an entire new set of boundaries.
My role. I am a full time house slave. I do not work outside the home. I do not apologize for this career, I LOVE this career. This career was chosen for me by Master. My job description would be as follows:Clean The House, Shop for the Food, Cook the Meals, Make Lunches, Do the Laundry, Take Care of Master, Take Care of our Kitty, Make sure Master has the Liquor of His choice at home when he returns home after a long day at work, Balance the Checkbook, Keep Master informed of Finances. Each morning I make sure everything is in it's proper place, I change the towels in Master's Bathroom, I vacuum, sweep the floors, mop the kitchen. Make sure all is clean in the house. In addition to this, weekly, I go thru the house and spend about 5 hours making sure all the bedding is changed, the fish tank is clean, the beta fish bowl is cleaned.Our home always looks like a Model home. Someone can walk in anytime and I am comfortable with that. I want to make Master proud. I take extra care trying to keep things the best they can me.One day a week I shop for groceries.Another day I may run errands to find sales, chase coupons, pick up medications for Master and myself.It is also my job to make sure that we have all our medications and that refills are filled, doctor offices called if appointments or medications needed.This is a multi faceted profession.It has wonderful benefits.When I met Master I worked for the United States Government and traveled extensively, my hours were days, nights and week ends.He hated that.He changed that.Master formulated a plan which took us across the Country. Where it is now warm and dry. Master changed careers. We live within the boundaries of Master's income.At first it was very hard for me as I was used to bringing money into the household. It was easy to just purchase what I wanted or needed without any thought.Learning to ask Master for things was difficult in the beginning for me and now it seems I don't have to ask. It is just like He knows what I need.Master SPOILS me SOOOOOOOOOOOO much!!
I do have hobbies.I sell things on Ebay. Small things mostly. I call it my ebay stocks. It is fun to see how much money I can make in a week. Though the amounts are small, it is enough to take Master to dinner or buy theater tickets sometimes.
Knitting, crocheting, sewing, photography, cooking, baking, gardening. These are my hobbies.
Together, Master and I like, The Theater, Concerts, Fine Dining, Travel, spending time at the Pool, in our hot tub, watching TV ( thou the TV shows of today leave alot to be desired) renting DVD's, and just talking to each other.
This is vanilla world. In this world, we are a very private couple. We spend almost 100 percent of our time together alone with EACH OTHER.We have chosen this lifestyle.
I didn't come here to tell our day to day vanilla lives, but I felt background would be helpful. It makes us so much like " the couple next door".
My next post will be all about kink and when one knows they found the right person to make that kink become reality.
Next blog.... Sex, spanking and more.
My role. I am a full time house slave. I do not work outside the home. I do not apologize for this career, I LOVE this career. This career was chosen for me by Master. My job description would be as follows:Clean The House, Shop for the Food, Cook the Meals, Make Lunches, Do the Laundry, Take Care of Master, Take Care of our Kitty, Make sure Master has the Liquor of His choice at home when he returns home after a long day at work, Balance the Checkbook, Keep Master informed of Finances. Each morning I make sure everything is in it's proper place, I change the towels in Master's Bathroom, I vacuum, sweep the floors, mop the kitchen. Make sure all is clean in the house. In addition to this, weekly, I go thru the house and spend about 5 hours making sure all the bedding is changed, the fish tank is clean, the beta fish bowl is cleaned.Our home always looks like a Model home. Someone can walk in anytime and I am comfortable with that. I want to make Master proud. I take extra care trying to keep things the best they can me.One day a week I shop for groceries.Another day I may run errands to find sales, chase coupons, pick up medications for Master and myself.It is also my job to make sure that we have all our medications and that refills are filled, doctor offices called if appointments or medications needed.This is a multi faceted profession.It has wonderful benefits.When I met Master I worked for the United States Government and traveled extensively, my hours were days, nights and week ends.He hated that.He changed that.Master formulated a plan which took us across the Country. Where it is now warm and dry. Master changed careers. We live within the boundaries of Master's income.At first it was very hard for me as I was used to bringing money into the household. It was easy to just purchase what I wanted or needed without any thought.Learning to ask Master for things was difficult in the beginning for me and now it seems I don't have to ask. It is just like He knows what I need.Master SPOILS me SOOOOOOOOOOOO much!!
I do have hobbies.I sell things on Ebay. Small things mostly. I call it my ebay stocks. It is fun to see how much money I can make in a week. Though the amounts are small, it is enough to take Master to dinner or buy theater tickets sometimes.
Knitting, crocheting, sewing, photography, cooking, baking, gardening. These are my hobbies.
Together, Master and I like, The Theater, Concerts, Fine Dining, Travel, spending time at the Pool, in our hot tub, watching TV ( thou the TV shows of today leave alot to be desired) renting DVD's, and just talking to each other.
This is vanilla world. In this world, we are a very private couple. We spend almost 100 percent of our time together alone with EACH OTHER.We have chosen this lifestyle.
I didn't come here to tell our day to day vanilla lives, but I felt background would be helpful. It makes us so much like " the couple next door".
My next post will be all about kink and when one knows they found the right person to make that kink become reality.
Next blog.... Sex, spanking and more.
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